I'm at it again......

Working on a new website. This time I'm using a website called WIX. www.wix.com I like how their web design program works. I have been working on an shopping cart with open cart, but I know things do take time. I figured I would give wix a try. http://pfancy.wix.com/lilmommagifts#!blogger/n4qag , look familiar. The blob anyways. I have the app embedded in to the site. I'm working on the website until I get something decent on it. I will upgrade later. $20.00 isn't to bad. I pay almost $30. just for www.lilmommagifts.com and I really have no control over that site. I love the site. but honestly I think I will like my new one better. I have so much to do on it. I'm looking for people to help out. Like look over it for typo's and other things to. Tips, suggestions, complaints, comments, etc... That is all I have to say for now.

Tough love and helping others

I love you. I know you like to help me but please, but don't push, don't force you help on me, as I will retaliate, let me ask you for help. I'll come to you when I need help. Don't expect for me to help you in return. I will return the favor in my own way. Don't be stubborn, Let others in. If they want help they will ask. For sometimes being stubborn only hurts oneself. Don't be hasty. You can help. Just be there for me. I'll be there for you, when I can. Let me help you. Sometimes what someone has to say may hurt, but don't take it personally, Take it as advice. You can learn. For it is only tough love and you need to see what you are doing and this gives you the chance to change, for the good. Open your heart and let me in. Don't let that brick wall consume you. Because being alone, stinks. I know you lost someone you love. SO have I. I can't be there for you if you ignore me. Let me hug you. Because I love you and I want to be there for you. Life is difficult at times, believe me I know. You just have to take a breath. Let it out slowly and think positive. Don't let what you can't control bug you to much, as you have no control over it. Worry about what you can control. You, your actions, your love. Sometimes you make mistakes, who doesn't. I make my own mistakes. We just have to learn from them. We can be there for each other. I love you.

I love you. I know you like to help me but please, but don't push, dont force you help on me, as I will retaliate, let me ask you for help. I'll come to you when I need help. Don't expect for me to help you in return. I will return the favor in my own way. Don't be stubborn, Let others in. If they want help they will ask. For sometimes being stubborn only hurts oneself. Don't be hasty. You can help. Just be there for me. I'll be there for you, when I can. Let me help you. Sometimes what someone has to say may hurt, but don't take it personally, Take it as advice. You can learn. For it is only tough love and you need to see what you are doing and this gives you the oppertunity to change, for the good. Open your heart and let me in. Don't let that brick wall consume you. Because being alone, stinks. I know you lost someone you love. SO have I. I can't be there for you if you ignore me. Let me hug you. Because I love you and I want to be there for you. Life is difficult at times, believe me I know. You just have to take a breath. Let it out slowly and think positive. Don't let what you can't control bug you to much, as you have no control over it. Worry about what you can control. You, your actions, your love. Sometimes you make mistakes, who doesn't. I make my own mistakes. We just have to learn from them. We can be there for each other. I love you.

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Hard mornings

Let's face it,  I don't write much on here because I'm not the best at grammar.  I write what is on my mind and rather it makes sense or not,  well I'm sorry,  I don't have any one to edit what I write.  My BFF has so much on her plate as it is, I hate to burden her with more stuff.

I'm writing today because today, as pretty much every day, I take my 10 year old to the bus stop, he does not want to do his routines.  Daddy takes him the first 2 days of school. He does what he is suppose to.  I've spanked him (my son) on the behind, I've taken toys away.  He said he wanted to go to Hastings this weekend.  (he must not be to worried about it or he would have gotten his routines done right?)  I don't know.  I wish I could talk to other parents who has children with ADHD.  My son I'm assuming chose to be defiant this morning.  He does this all the time.
WHAT would you do as a mom with a child with ADHD to get him  to get ready?  I have tried everything to get him to do right.  He just does not want to do for mommy.  Am I not "Mean" enough.  Should I be more assertive?  I guess I'm scared of hurting him.  Any advice would be great.

please help me get more bids on this Fine French Bath Set

here is the website.  I have 1 credit on this item.  I need more.  I can not give this away for basically 1 penny. http://www.listia.com/profile/2999148 please take a look at the page and see if you like or if you want to give it as a Christmas gift.  if it goes to 1,000 credits you will get credit for my store.  Thank you.

Listia FREE auction Site.

Hey,  I have some items to give away through Listia.com  and they are free.  You earn points when you join and you can use those to bid on items you want.  I've gotten 3 items so far.  Well won,  I'll post when I receive them.  I have 2 items that has less then an hour left so check it out on my profile page.
http://www.listia.com/profile/2999148  Thank you and happy bidding.  Also I want to say when you place a bid for 1,000 points you get a $1.00 credit towards your actual purchase through my catalogs.  If you want one just email with Request a catalog in the subject line.

Happy Bidding.

COUPONS

I had to get another package of toothpaste out because I ran out yesterday. (I got the package out today.) Guess what I found in it. Coupons. Yeah. I started the couponing not that long ago. I've all ready saved $60 + dollars. ( Wish I knew where that money was. LOL. ) We live from week to week paycheck and I had to do something different to save some money. I might not see the actual money that I have saved, but watching that register price go down with those coupons sure helps me feel better. Just knowing that I save some money helps......

I got off topic didn't I? Back to the coupons in the tooth paste box.

Crest Cavity protection is what the coupons were in.

$7.00 on any one crest 3d White Whitestrips. Professional Effects.

$1.00 on any one bag of Iams dog or cat food.

$1.00 on any Secret Clinical strength deodorant.

$1.00 on any one Covergirl product.

Now watch for these items to be on sale and use those coupons on them.

HAPPY NEW YEAR!!

I hope you have a happy new year. My goals for this year is

1. Work on getting my house clean.

2. Try to save money.

That is my main goal for the up coming year.

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If you into saving money on groceries like me you might want to check out this ebook.

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I want to learn to save $250 a month on groceries. how bout you?

Sunday June 12, 2011

I'm still working on dishes. I have not felt that good lately. allergies I think. I have been having a handfull seems like for the last week. When I feel better maybe I can actually get them done. I have gotten the laundry pretty much done for the most part. I've been hanging them out on the line this week. Other then last night. It had rained. I got some clothes out and some bedding out on the line drying now. I got a load drying in the dryer from last night? I have a small amount in the washer at the moment. My lines are all full. Later on this evening I'll gather up the clothes on the line and hang up what is left in the dryer. IF it goes well I"ll fold and put away the bedding and the clothes before I go to bed this evening.

Since I'm going through dear hubbies things, I"m getting like 10 items and bringing it the house a day. If not doing that about 4 times a day. That way it is easy for him to go through and he can go about his business. I know that does not seem like much, but I KNOW it is helping. I am getting that tote that is in storage cleaned out slowly. and we are getting rid of a handful of items a day. Which the garbage will be going out with the garbage truck on Thursday. That is it for now. I am not feeling that good today, but I am getting my routines done. I have discovered that if I do my routines in the mornings I can relax and have some fun the rest of the day.
Ruth.

Rough new year.

I don’t know about you but my day was a drag. I went to a church on Saturday to get some free food and things. And my friends husband calls her and she says her son has a bump on his head. Then later she gets a call back saying he (her son) is not responding to his daddy. My dear husband takes her to the hospital to where her husband and son is going. My other friends and I get our stuff and my friends mom takes me home since my husband is with the daughter and her family. We get home like at two or three thirty I can’t remember which. Then my best friend calls me probably after six to tells me that the little baby had died. Joshua Dewayne. Only 3 months old. May he rest in peace.

Let me get back to my day today. Well I’ve been pretty much doing nothing. I done half of my dishes. They were pretty piled up since I had not done them since probably Wednesday. They were not as a bad as I thought they would be. Then I’ve been slowly putting clothes away. I’ve just been rather sad today. I am a mom and I can only imagine how this friend feels. I have a 7 year old son and I worry about him all the time. It is really sad that my friend had lost their 3 month old son. May God be with them and help them get through this hard times. I know it took me quite a while to get use to not having my parents. They passed away on December 8th 2000(my dad) and on January 11th 2001 my mom passed away. So you can imagine how this is affecting me. With this little baby passing away years later close to the day as my parents had passed away. I can understand to a point on how they feel. Only time will help heal them of their loss. And they will never forget their precious little baby. As I have not forgotten my parents. I miss them very much.

2 boxes done today.

I done some sorting. I got like 2 and 3/4 boxes done. I put stuff in the boxes that I want to get rid of. Hopefully We can have a yard sale soon. I'm hoping to do like the people on Clean house. I don't expect to get much money though. I would like to use the money to go towards some furniture for my house. I know my friend can get this kind of think for me for free but it is just nice having NEW things. I hope I can get some more boxes ready for the yard sale soon. I hope to get one a day or so. IF not. At-least what ever I do put in the box will help.

Just got $25 From Clickiq

I would like to share a survey with you. But I can't seem to find the referral link. I'm a member of Click IQ Well my user id is searcydigest I would refer you to it if I knew the url for refering people to their survey site

Anyways check it out if you like. I just got $25.00 added to my paypal account from them. You have to have 2,500 points in order to request your money.

My Shiny Sink

Well I was going to post a picture of my shiny sink. I am proud of my self. I got it the dishes done and the right side of the counter cleaned off. Did not take long. I had mostly drinking glasses on it and a can opener and a coffee pot on it. I took a picture of it. I had to get on a stepping stool because I'm short and could not get a good picture of it. So I was getting ready to upload a picture to here for my progress. Only to realize I could not find my cable to connect my camera to my computer. I remember putting a cable up some where when I went to try out a computer I bought at a fundraiser yard sale for $30.00. Well it is a small computer and I figured i might give it to my 7 year old son. Well the thing is Now I do not remember what I done with the cable. I was thinking it went to something and wasn't sure what it went to. So I rolled it up and stuck it............

WHERE. lol. Well. WHen I find my cable i'll show you my shinny sink.

My Shiny Sink

Well I was going to post a picture of my shiny sink. I am proud of my self. I got it the dishes done and the right side of the counter cleaned off.

To much work

I overdid it yesterday. My husband and I went through the stuff in my computer room. I put stuff on the bed as I was going through it. After I got half of the room cleaned out my husband had me go through the other half. (not trying to make him out to be mean. I asked him for help. :) ) I got my totes of yarn and boxes of crochet projects that needed to be done and gave it to him so he can put them up. SO I can get to the stuff on the bottom. Once I got that corner cleared out. He handed me back the box of crochet projects that needs to be done. Then he handed me to totes of yarn. Then We went through the boxes and stuff on the bed and He put those boxes in the other corner. We have more room in the middle now where Someone can sit comfortably. I still have to much stuff in my computer room. But it does help out. I want it cleared out where my husband can work on his craft projects on one side and me on the other. But I have to go through. But I think once I get it sorted a bit. Then I'll go through it again. I'll go through things time and again. What I wanted one time, I may decide later I do not want it. I'm taking my items I do not want to the consignment store. I am hoping to make some money. I know they won't take all of my stuff. But what they do keep to sell I will get something out of it. It does help. Well Have fun.

What you can find when you clean.

I've been going through our storage trailer over the last few months and it is amazing on what you can find. I found my old Batman book. I love the Batman show. I bought a book that tells about the movie and how it was made. I found an old scrape book my friend in high school made for me. (I just wish she did not treat me the way she did.) I do miss those old time when we were in High School. One saying I do believe in. "You know who your friends really are when it comes down to it." (not sure exactly if that is how it was said, but It was on the movie Blank check) Loved that movie by the way. Anyways back to my story. I also found my Batman Collectors cards. (just about have them all.) I wonder if someone has some I do not have online. hmm. I also found a teddy bear with balloon. You know the little paint set that you do and I think you put it in the oven to bake a little then it does what it needs to. It is so cute. I can't believe I found it. I wonder what else I can find. 1 Box at a time is all I am allowing myself to do. Well maybe 3 tops. In a day. I still have a lot of work to do. But I'm making progress. I'm sure I'll find some of my other things I had as a child.

I'm slowing find a place for things. I"m throwing away what needs to be thrown away. Putting away what needs to be put away. and Well trying to make some money off the things I no longer need. (wish me luck on that part. Well anyways. That is all for now. You never know when i'll post again in my blog. Sorry I have not posted in a while. I kind of forget about it. I was reading a blog about coupons and it was the same type blog as this is and that is what made me decide to post. Anyways, Have a Great day.

Hecktic week.

This has been a hecktic week for us. Saturday, I let my dogs out to go potty. And well The boys came back to the house. and I had this sinking feeling about my female dog. Usually It is Gizmo who comes in first, then Sometimes Fancy then Rusty. Sometimes Rusty then Fancy, But Rusty and Gizmo comes in together. I called for Fancy(my female dog,) She does not come. I wait about two hours and still no show. So for the next few days we look for her, Then we ask our neighbors to see if they had seen her. And No luck.

What stinks about this is about about 7 years ago. our long haired Chihuahua done the same thing. We found him though. He was about dead. He had been attacked by a big dog. and Had internal bleeding. After that we had put up a dog fence with a gate to keep them in the yard.
Sometimes they do not always get in their area. Well I would carry Fancy to put her in the gate because she will go under the house instead. Saturday night. The 19 of Sept 09, I let my dogs out. Well. I didn't think to pick up Fancy and carry her. I let them out to go potty and a little while later, When I realized it was time for them to come back in the house. Gizmo and Rusty were ready to come in. and Fancy was not. Well. I called for fancy and she had not come back I figured she may need some more time. After 2 hours of calling for her and not having any luck, I figured I would go to bed in hopes she would return the following morning. One time Rusty had ran off and had come back the next day. So I had hoped the same for my girl dog. But noooo.
Well consider the is 14 years old and has cateracks and getting hard of hearing.
This is what I think could have happened. I saw a cat in our yard earlier that day. I think They might have chased it. and Fancy followed it for a while. and then lost her way back home. I'm still hoping that she turn up. IF she does not, I'm hoping she has reunited with Little buddy. And in Doggie Heaven.
After all that, Monday I had to get a tooth pulled that has been bothering me for 2 months. so now I'm missing my dog and my jaw hurts a bit. I do hope that the next few days gets better for us. I know my jaw will start feeling better. But anyways. I just had to write in my blog today. It has been a while since I have. I do apologize for the sad story. But I had to get that off my chest. and..............
on a side note. I'm trying some html for a mamma source site. I"m assuming. This site came up and Since I do blogs, I wanted to try this and add something pretty cool for moms. If you need help with stuff this is a cool site.
Although, I'm not quite sure about mammapedia, but I believe it is a part of mammasource and I enjoy that site. So. let me know what you think.
Feel free to comment on my blog. And I hope my readers are having a better then We had... And IF you are feeling down. Laugh at something or find something laugh about and think about the good things that happened, I know it is hard some times, but We HAVE to laugh to help us through the day. Take care.

My website.

I've been working on my site again. It has been a while. But I think I like this site better. I'm changing the colors on it. I've noticed some of the links did not show up. Like in my chat room. So I'm using brighter colors instead of the dark one. I don't know how I did it, but I used the same color background as the link.
So check it out if you want. http://searcyyardsalestore.bravehost.com
let me know what you think. I added a picture of the Halloween items Noah's Ark workshop is promoting. The pic goes to my photobucket page. But I got a link on there to to go to my page of the website. anyways. Just wanted to make a post letting you know about my changes I've done to the web site. I so hope it is looking better though. I still need to work on my Shop page. It is out of date. LOL. May need to just post a link to my plunder here page.