Tough love and helping others

I love you. I know you like to help me but please, but don't push, don't force you help on me, as I will retaliate, let me ask you for help. I'll come to you when I need help. Don't expect for me to help you in return. I will return the favor in my own way. Don't be stubborn, Let others in. If they want help they will ask. For sometimes being stubborn only hurts oneself. Don't be hasty. You can help. Just be there for me. I'll be there for you, when I can. Let me help you. Sometimes what someone has to say may hurt, but don't take it personally, Take it as advice. You can learn. For it is only tough love and you need to see what you are doing and this gives you the chance to change, for the good. Open your heart and let me in. Don't let that brick wall consume you. Because being alone, stinks. I know you lost someone you love. SO have I. I can't be there for you if you ignore me. Let me hug you. Because I love you and I want to be there for you. Life is difficult at times, believe me I know. You just have to take a breath. Let it out slowly and think positive. Don't let what you can't control bug you to much, as you have no control over it. Worry about what you can control. You, your actions, your love. Sometimes you make mistakes, who doesn't. I make my own mistakes. We just have to learn from them. We can be there for each other. I love you.